Week One – Proverbs WebQuest Part One – Required for ALL
Proverbs – What they mean to me
A Brief WebQuest
During, and as a result of, this WebQuest you will:
- Phase 1 – Research
- learn about proverbs, how they work, and their cultural significance.
- learn the difference between proverbs and clichés.
- share, study, and interpret proverbs. (post questions about specific proverbs if you like)
- Phase 2 – Post to thread
- find a proverb that rings true for you and explain its significance.
In order to be as informed as possible, you should like (this is a strong suggestion) to take a look at the following two documents (I’d print them if I were you): Proverb Definitions, and Common Proverbs.
Here we go . . .
Proverbs – Phase 1
Research
First off, what are proverbs? Proverbs are brief adages that speak truths.
Traditional proverbs are meant to convey cultural knowledge and wisdom, and are often closely tied to a culture’s values and everyday experience. Sometimes their meanings are not always readily apparent to us today. Some common proverbs that speak truths are:
- Out of the frying pan and into the fire!
- A stitch in time saves nine!
- Look before you leap!
- Don’t put all your eggs in one basket.
In The Book Without Words by Avi, Odo in particular is given to saying proverbs at appropriate, and sometimes very inappropriate, times. Alfric, too, offers the occasional well-timed proverb as he becomes more at home.
Some of the proverbs found in the book are:
- “A fool is the first to think himself wise and the last to know it isn’t so.” -Odo (Ch 2:1)
- “The lengthier the life, the more locked the lip.” -Odo (Ch 2:9)
- “Death is part of life.” -Odo (Ch 3:11)
- “Live long enough and all become orphans.” -Odo (Ch 3:11)
- “. . . the shorter the sermon, the longer the truth.” -Alfric (Ch 3:11)
- “. . . time is like an oxcart wheel – that it has no end or beginning but only rolls.” -Alfric (Ch 3:1 8)
- “A sniff of gold makes all noses sneeze.” -Odo (Ch 3:1 8)
- “A life unlived is like a book without words.” -Preamble
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Explore the richness of proverbs by visiting the following web resource sites. You do not need to visit all of them. You are looking for a proverb that you identify with, that you can say rings true for you. Go ahead look around. Do this now.
Web Resources – By clicking these links you will be leaving Mr. Moshé’s blog. Mr. Moshé can not be responsible for the content or functionality of websites outside of his domain. Whether he likes it or not, there are some things he can not control.
- What Do You Think Ben Meant?
http://www.fi.edu/franklin/printer/abc.html- The Franklin Institute provides this list of A to Z proverbs from Benjamin Franklin.
- Insects: Proverbs, Quotes, Sayings
http://www.bijlmakers.com/entomology/proverbs_insects_2.htm- Includes proverbs about insects collected from around the world. A good site for students to find proverbs.
- Proverbs by Country of Origin
http://www.famous-quotations.com/asp/origins.asp- A large collection of proverbs from around the world. A good site for students to find proverbs, though the site contains some ads.
- Proverbs from 300 Countries and Cultures
http://creativeproverbs.com/- Collection of proverbs. Search from 12,000 proverbs from 300 countries and cultures or browse from over 1,500 from 100 countries and cultures. The site contains some advertisements.
- CogWeb’s Proverb Resources
http://cogweb.ucla.edu/Discourse/Proverbs/index.html- Proverbs from around the world and links to external collections. Includes links to proverb journals, articles, and reference materials. Good for both students and teachers.
- Proverbs: More Than Words Say
http://www.peacecorps.gov/wws/views/proverbs/index.html- Short Peace Corps collection of proverbs from around the world. Locations of origin and meaning/context provided. Provides suggestions for teaching with proverbs.
- Proverbial Wisdom
http://www.theotherpages.org/quote-05.html- A collection of 600+ proverbs from around the world, listed alphabetically.
Proverbs – Phase 2
Post to this thread
Use the Web resources listed above (and the novel The Book Without Words) to look for proverbs you like, proverbs that resonate with you. Find a proverb that means something for you.
Post to this thread about a time, an occasion, an event in which that proverb rang true.
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Cruz and Duff (1996) argue that working with proverbs in the classroom can improve students’ learning experiences, their language skills, and their understanding of themselves and the world. This happens because:
- Proverbs provide an opportunity for students to be knowledgeable experts as well as learners.
- Proverbs provide an opportunity for students to learn about each other and their shared values.
- Proverbs provide an opportunity for students to gain insight as they discuss their experiences and work out their understanding of proverb meanings.
- Proverbs provide an opportunity for students to use their home culture as a stepping stone into school culture.
- Proverbs provide an opportunity to improve thinking and writing as students both provide and receive information.
Cruz, Mary Carmen, and Ogle Burks Duff. 1996. “New Words, Old Wisdom.” English Journal 86 (November): 116–118.
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This webQuest has been adapted from the Discussion Guide for The Book Without Words by Avi designed by Hyperion Books and the ReadWriteThink Lesson on Proverbs
The proverb i chose is “The tree casts its shade upon all, even the woodcutter”
This says to me that everyone should show kindness and respect to eachother. Even if some one doesnt show kindness to you or doesnt respect you, you should still respect and show kindness to them. like the tree gives shade to the wood cutter, everyone should show kindness to one other. this effects my life and also everyone elses. If we all gave out our shade, even to the wood cutters, then could you imagine how much better our cliques, our classes, our schools, our communities our world would be? there wouldnt be crime, wars, or even arguments. this proverb helps me at home, it helps me treat my sister my friends and the rest of my family better, it helps me have a better attitude towards life.
“Patience is bitter, but the fruit is sweet.”
-French Proverb
In other words, the longer you wait for something, the more worthy the result becomes. This relates to me because, many times I’ve had to wait for things, but when I finally get them, it seems ten times better. A small example of this is when my sister promised me a Jamba Juice, and I had to wait over three weeks more than expected. Although it took longer to recieve, when I finally did get to drink it, it tasted even more delicious!
proverb:
The Doors of wisdom are never shut.
this proverb means that when you learn you become wiser. It also means that you can always learn wisdomat anytime.
I chose this proverb because i always wanted to know more and educate myself. Even if you know everthing you can still be not wise. normally the old are wise because they have the most experince. so this actually means that at all times you can learn wisdom.
Proverb: Well done is better than well said.
This means that actions speak louder than words because anyone can say something, but it takes alot to actually do it.
I like this proverb because some people can be hypocritical and say one thing and then turn around and do the opposite and I find that kind of annoying. It is better to do something than to say you will.
The quote I choose is “He who begins many things finishes but few.”
It’s an Italian proverb.
It means that if you spend your life trying to accomplish many things,trying to get your name recorded in history before you die, life will be meaningless for you.You’ll get almost nothing done and you won’t have enjoyed yourself.It’s better to have enjoyed yourself than to spend your whole life on achievements and to end up with little.
Although I haven’t really experienced a time when this really applied to me, I’m sure thee are many people in the world that this refers to.Like if you’re in college or high school trying to get to college loosening up and having some fun sometimes is better than trying to write thousands of essays and participating in thousands of extracurricular activities and doing tons of community service to get a great scholarship,you wouldn’t enjoy yourself the slightest bit.
Proverb:
Speak little, do much.
This proverb means to me talking could get you somewhere but using your actions can get you farther.
This proverb really refers to everyone. For example, if you have to clean your room and you just say to yourself “yeah i’ll do it” and you don’t get anything done, maybe you should get up and do it!
Proverb-“Don’t think there are no crocodiles because the water is calm.”
To me this proverb means that even when you think everthing is working out, there are still obstacles there whether it’s person or a tradegy that will push you back.
Personal Experience- In six-grade, I had the lowest self-esteem in the school(at least that’s what I thought). And I had some good friends who turn out to be crocodiles, they made me feel worst about myself which made my good grades and behavior bad. Until I left the school in seven-grade I still down and things were not going good for me.
THE PROVERB I CHOSE WAS: THE GRASS ALWAYS SEEMS GREENER ON THE OTHER SiDE.
I THiNK THiS PROVERB MEANS THAT THiNGS ALWAYS LOOK BETTER FROM THE OUTSiDE. FOR EXAMPLE, FROM WHERE iM STANDiNG iT MAY LOOK AS THOUGH EVERYTHiNG WERE PERFECT, BUT THEN AS YOU GET TO KNOW THAT PERSON YOU FIND OUT THAT THiNGS ACTUALLY AREN’T THAT GOOD ON THE “GREENER SiDE”.
FOR ME, i LiKED THiS PROVERB BECAUSE iT SEEMS VERY TRUE. PEOPLE ALL AROUND ME ALWAYS SAY THAT THEY WiSH THEY COULD BE SOMEBODY ELSE BECAUSE THEY THINK THAT PERSON IS SOO MUCH BETTER. WHICH THEY FIND OUT IS ALMOST NEVER TRUE.
The proverb I chose is; “Expirience is a comb which nature gives us when we are bald”
Definition- It means that when you gain expirience, you never need it anymore.
Personal Expirience- I accidentally fed my dog my cellphone and got my mom so angry, she didn’t want to talk to me for an hour. I was so scared of her that I learned to never do that, but the expirience won’t mean anything becaus I’ll never do that again.
If everyone gives one thread, the poor man will have a shirt.
Russian Proverb
This proverb means: Alone, people can’t always help somebody or something but with help from many it won’t take very much to offer what is disired.
This pertains to me because I try to help on community projects to make a difference. Since not many people come to help out the work is twice the struggle it would be if everyone pitched in.
The proverb I chose is the ”doors of wisdom are never shut”.
To me this proverb means that you can always learn more and become wiser. You can always learn something at any time, in other words this means whatever you are doing you can become wiser and smarter. I try and do this sometimes, but most of the time I don’t. This proverb will help me become a better person and to make the most something because ”the doors of wisdom are never shut”. This why I chose this proverb.
My proverb is : Every time you wake up and ask yourself,”what good things am I going to do today?” remember that when the sun goes down at sunset it takes part of your life with it. -Indian proverb.
I think it means that you should make the most of your life. I feel like I’m always wasting my time and this proverb tells me to make the most of my life.
Proverb-“Pay what you owe and you’ll know whats your own”
Personal Experience-One time I bet three people and lost. Then I was with them and I went to buy something. They all took their money. I was left with nothing. That’s when I knew exactly what I really owned.
The Proverb I Choose is: Better to light one candle than to curse the darkness -Chinese Proverb
To me this proverb means instead of sitting there grouping and complaining about something, take action to stop or prevent that problem.
This poverb pertains to me because i base my actions on this i do not sit there and mope about my problems i do something about it.
The proverb that i chose was:”One may have good eyes and yet see nothing”.
I chose this proverb because a lot of people in this century are blindsighted by so much, which makes them so niave. My proverb is stating that you could have 20/20 vision but still not see something that might do you harm. My mother always tells me this because you could be so foolish not to see something that is so obvious. It’s just like saying you’re a baby who’s eyes aren’t open to the world yet. It’s like being very smart in school, but you have to be street smart too because if you’re not then you’ll get tricked so easily. My mother told me that when she was younger and living in New York, she just moved out of my grandma’s house, and she was walking the street and a man came to her and said if she wanted to open a bank account. She said to herself that it would be a good idea because she was getting a paycheck every two weeks. So the man asked her for $100 to open an account, and she gave it to him and the man never came back. She later came to find that the man was a bum on the street looking for a nieve person and a quick dollar.
~It never rains, it pours~
I choose this proverb because its true. It can’t never be one little thing that goes wrong, Its has to be everything that goes bad.Every time that I might think things might be going good,one bad small thing happens and you know your thinking to yourself “ok its only one bad thing thats not going ruin my day”.But It all goes bad anyway. Thats why I picked this proverb because it does apply to everyone.
The proverb i chose is “three may keep a secret if two of them are dead”.
To me this proverb means to not trust any one but the one you could trust the most yourself.
This proverb keys into me because like many of us i have experienced what we call ” back stabbing” when you tell someone you think you could trust something personal and the next thing you kno your enemy knows.
“If you put your nose into the water, you will also wet your cheeks.”
Russian Proverb
This proverb is very true to me because I have expressed it all of my life.
It means that “if you commit to something, you have give it all to achieve your goal.”
An example of this is when I found out about American Heritage High School. I studied for the entrance exam with only two weeks left until it. Two weeks is absolutely nothing; the study book says to study for three. months. I commited to studying for two weeks and completely ignoring everything else, (physical activity, video games, parties, etc.). You know what, I got a 50% scholarship and I’m proud of myself. I believe in myself!
Another example would be that when I learned to play soccer. I decided to try out for the Westpine soccer team, and I practiced everywhere with everything. I mean, I did play soccer before, but not as good as when I made the team. I put 110% effort into it, and I achieved my goal. I made 1st cuts, 2nd cuts, and I made the team!
I plan to do the same to get into college. Basically, if you put your nose into the water, you’ll also wet your cheeks, and you’ll accomplish your goal!
The proverb that I found is ‘Be slow in choosing a friend, but slower in changing him.’ This proverb could mean a number of things, but to me it means that you should be careful of who you choose as a friend, but don’t try to change the ones you already have. This proverb applies to everyone everyday. I choose this proverb because it stood out from all the others that I saw.
A guilty conscience is a forbidden enemy..
I understand that because when somebody has a guilty conscience that do stupid things and then it tears them apart from inside out
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Ajani,
How do yo know this is true? Tell us about an experience you’ve had that can be an example of it.
Mr. Moshe, on the “insect proverbs site,” I think I have heard most of the Russian proverbs in Russian from my parents, relatives, and grandparents, (because I speak Russian).
“The weak never forget. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong”. -Gandhi
This proverb means to, always learn to forgive somone (no matter how bad the situatuation is), that is what makes you truly strong . This proverb keys in to me because, one year in summer camp I had no friends because the other girls were really mean to me. There was one girl I will never forget what she did to me. It was her 10th birthday and she was planning a sleepover and invited everyone but me. She laughed in my face and called me names. She was ignorant and rude and I learned to forgive her because it wasn’t her fault, that’s just the way she was. Because I forgave her, that makes me really strong.
I think Estebans’ proberb was really good. It helps people to stop thinking about how bad they have things, but consider that it could always be worse.
The proverb I chose is ¨án empty bag cannot stand upright¨.
This proverb to me means that you should never leave yourself down and out. You should always stand upright and think good of yourself. When something bad happens let It happen but don´t let that one thing bring you down.
This proverbs keys in to me because lets say I get a bad grade on a test or I lose someting I´ll be sad for that moment but I would never let that situation make me sad for a long time. I let the moment happen and then be happy and ready to take on more challenges in my life.
I choose : “The best answer to anger is silence.” To me, this means that if you get angry, instead of blowing up in someone’s face, just relax and don’t say anything to them. They just want to push you to your limit.
A time when this was true for me was last year. I got mad at someone, but instead of yelling and screaming, plus giving them the pleasure of knowing that I was mad, I just shook my head and walked away. That’s a lot better then getting into a fight.
“Every Garden May Have Some Weeds.”
-English Proverb
So, you may be asking what does this mean? Well here is your answer. This proverb is VERY true. As I read this, it alerted me right away letting me know the true meaning of this proverb. So, what it is saying is, Nothing or Nobody is perfect. Think about it, Gardens are beautiful, but some are bound to have weeds. So it may be beautiful, but it is not perfect. I knew this was the right proverb. I could realte to it in so many ways and understand it. Reading this proverb over and over, led chills up my spine. It is freakishly true.
Real-Life Examples You Want Heh?
Ahh..Have you ever noticed, a student at school, that belives they are popular, pretty, and all around perfect. *raises hand* I have. In my opinion, sometimes it is annoying. Yet, on top of those reasons, there is bound to be something wrong with him or her. No One is perfect. I repeat…”NO ONE is perfect.”
Another thing I realized about people thinking they are perfect…some people get into fights over these things. So what am I saying, thinking your perfect leads to violence? No. A lot of reasons are the answers to why fights break out. But, in my opinion, most of the things I see happen is Drama, Fights, and so much stupidity over the smallest things.
Have you ever seen a movie with lets say a popular girl in it? Haven’t you noticed there is always at least one thing wrong with her? Like I said earlier nobody is perfect.
Lets say you see a gorgeous flower, it is not perfect, it could be poisionous for all you know.
I ask that many people take this proverb into consideration. Learn from it.
That is all I have to say.
“I was angered, for I had no shoes. Then I met a man who had no feet.”
What it means:You may feel angry when someone has something that you don’t have, but, there are people with less than you so you should satisfy.
My experience with this proverb:Sometimes I may get angry because some of my friends have things that I don’t, and I want to get them but then I learn that there are many people that have less than me so I should satisfy with what I have.
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I’m very impressed with your efforts here. I can identify with most of what you are all talking about. Proverbs hold universal truths, and I am not exempt. Here are some of my personal favorites from your selections:
“I was angered, for I had no shoes. Then I met a man who had no feet.” -Chinese Proverb
I get the message that I should be grateful for what I have.
“If we do not change our direction, we are likely to end up where we are headed”
-Chinese Proverb
“Be not afraid of growing slowly, be afraid only of standing still. ”
-chinese proverb
I get the message that learning must be a constant.
“After the game, the king and the pawn go into the same box.”
-unknown
We are all, ALL, equal. No matter what!
Beauty without wisdom is like a flower in the mud.
-Romanian Proverb
To be just another pretty face will never be enough.
“The doors of wisdom are never closed”.
-unknown
There is always, in every situtation, something to be learned.
“the apple does not fall far from the tree”
-unknown
This one is so awesome. Yes, while I am inescapably like my father and mother – I am not them. And with each generation, the differences between the self and the ancestor become bigger and more pronounced. The similarities over time become more and more hidden. While the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree, it does not fall and become it. We, each of us, become a new tree, we grow in our own direction, bear our own fruit, and allow for seeds to fall and sprout after us. So long as apples fall from trees, growth and change is inevitable. Ok, that is enough of that for now.
Some others I liked are:
“Live your own life, for you will die your own death.”
-unknown
“A life unlived is like a book without words.”
-Old Proverb
“Follow the river and you will find the sea”
-unknown
The proverb I chose is: Forget injures, never forget kindness. -Confucius
To me the proverb means to stop dreading on the past and/or present anguish(es) which are vexing you to the point of madness, and remenber the tenderness in which you endured, even if only a trickle was/is bestow(ed) to you; if you only trend on the sorrows of your world and forsake the kindness in your life, all you will have left is sorrow and the longing for obliterated bliss to return to you.
A time in which the proverb rang true was before the summer of 7th grade. I submerge myself in regrets and was trailing off to a summer of misery, however, the company of my friends dragged me back to the road of happiness, even through I didn’t let them know it at the time.
Chinese Proverb:
“If we do not change our direction, we are likely to end up where we are headed”
Meaning: This proverb is simple if we don’t choose our destiny, then it will be chosen for us, and it might not be the most pleasant future.
How it relates to me: Everyday we have to choose which direction to go, and we can choose whether we want to actually make the effort to change the routine or just see where it takes you. In my family we’re actually going through a “direction changing” process. My mother wants to move to Spain over the Summer because she wants to go somewhere where the routine will change and we will get to see different places and live a different culture, however if we stay, we keep our chances of doing what’s in our lifelong plan, which might not be what’s meant for us. So even though changing directions can be a bit scary and challenging it almost always turns out for the best.
“Hunger never saw bad bread” From what I understand, this means that those who are hungry do not care if their food taste bad, they just want to eat. They take what they can get. I believe this applies to me because sometimes I dont like what my Mom cooks, and she will reply “You dont like it? Then dont eat.” For a little while I saty stubborn, but in the endmy hunger overcomes my stubborness and I eat the tuna casserole, or the spinach. The significance of this proverb is simple. Before you complain about what ever you have, think about how people who dont have anything at all are thankfull for what ever they recieve. Despite how little, old, or tasteless it may be.
The proverb that i chose was:
If i die, I forgive you; If I live i live we shall see
This proverb really caught my attention at first because it sounded really cool.
But after thinking about it I really understood what it meant. For example when you and one of your friends are in an argument, once something life changing happens to either you or your friend,you just forgive each other. You realize that you were arguing over something stupid.But if things go back to normal you guys are back to arguing. Or for me when I go on a terrifying ride (im a big baby) I yell and scream and say “im sorry for everything, I’ll never do bad again.” But right after the ride Im back to being my same old mean self. It may not be right but its true.And that’s how this proverb relates to me.
Esteban: I love your quote!!!! Its so easy to understand and the meaning applies to everyone
The proverb I chose was:”Sweep first before your own door, before you sweep the doorsteps of your neighbors” A swedish Proverb
This proverb is so familiar to me that I even know it in another language (Creole):” Retire bout boua ki ne je ou avan ou wé pousié ki nan jé zamni ou.”
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To me this proverb means that before you start judging others you should evaluate yourself. You may see something wrong with everyone around, but in reality the problems are in you. People look down on others and disrespect others because they feel insecure about themselves. For this reason, if someone tries to put me down, I don’t pay any attention to them because they are just calling me out because they feel insecure about themselves. When you judge someone without really knowing what is right under your nose, you are prone to be embarassed and ashamed, I try not to judge people but I’m only human and I sometimes make mistakes. No matter what I do i try to live by this proverb.
The proverb I chose was “If you wish to learn the highest truths, start with the alphabet.”
It is a Japanese proverb which to me means if you want to learn the greatest things in life, you need to start out simple and work your way up.
I picked this Proverb because it happened to me very often ever since I was watching a live performance on tv( I don’t remember the band) and I saw a guitar solo and I told my mom that I wanted to learn how to play guitar. When I first started out I was so mad and almost wanted to stop because I felt that I wasn’t getting anywhere, but my mom always kept on telling me that if I wanted to play like the pros, I would have to start with the basics. I feel that this proverb relates very closely to me.
* “I was angered, for I had no shoes. Then I met a man who had no feet.” -Chinese Proverb
*What this proverb means is that you should be satisfied with what you have, and not getting upset with what you don’t have, because there are people in worse situations.
* This has come into play so many times in my life that it’s easier to say when it hasn’t been in play. It happens all the time. One instance was when I wanted to have the biggest house when my family and I visited North Carolina. It had about six or eight rooms on the second floor. Then, I remembered that many people live not in homes, but in streets and boxes. It later occured to me that we really didn’t need so much space. I’ve been living in a pretty small apartment for about seven years now; me and my family moved to the U.S. almost eight years ago. Seeing all the homeless people on the street makes you satisfied with where you live in, no matter how big or small it is. I finally concluded that my home is perfect just the way it is.
“Since we cannot get what we like let us like what we can get.”spanish proverb
This proverb means to me that what we can get is better than getting nothing at all.
I picked this proverb because that happens to me sometimes and maybe to some of u. For example lets say you wanted to get an icecream ……………….i have to stop now i’ll finish it tonight
THE PROVERB THAT i PiCKED iS, YOU LEARN FROM YOUR MiSTAKES. A PROVERB iS A SiMPLE AND CONCRETE SAYiNG POPULARLY KNOWN AND REPEATED, WHiCH EXPRESSES A TRUTH BASED ON COMMON SENSE OR THE PRACTiCLE EXPERiENCE OF MANKiND. MY PROVERVB MEANS THAT iF YOU DO SOMETHiNG ONCE THEN YOU SHOULD LEARN FROM THAT MiSTAKE. iF YOU DO iT AGAiN THEN YOU OBViOUSLY HAVN’T LEARNED FROM THAT MiSTAKE. THiS SHOWS THAT YOU KNOW THAT YOU ARE DOiNG SOMETHiNG BUT YOU REALLY JUST DONT CARE. ;> )
my proverb is to win sometimes you must loose.
to me this means even though you may win somthing in your heart and your mind you might not really be winning. its like saying is winning a game worth more then a freindship.sometimes the win is not worth more then the loss.
The proverd I chose is ; Every road has two directions.(Russian)
This proverb really drew me to it because it applies to me in what me and my peer’s are going through. It means there always a right and wrong way to do something or a right thing to do or the bad tthing to do.
It relates to me because i am being pressured to do wrong things in my life. But i must deciide the right “direction” to go.
“Live life by your own rules”
~To me this proverb means live your life how you want to live it. Don’t let other people make desicions for you. Make your own chioces. Don’t always listen to other peoples opinions on how to live your life. For example, I don’t always listen to what other people have to say on how i should do something. Sometimes I should have listened to them because they were right, but I chose not to and I will deal with that. I chose to do what I did and thats how I wanted to go about that situation. I make my own choices and live how I want to live. I can admit I do listen to others and sometimes [depending on the situation] they are right and other times they are wrong. But again, I chose what I wanted to do and even if I was wrong im still going to live my life how I want.
The proverb I chose was: “Be not afraid of growing slowly, be afraid only of standing still. ” -chinese proverb
This basically means that you should accept change,and not just do the exact same thing,or live the exact same way,because you will go nowhere in life.
I feel as if I realate to this proverb because I have changed so much in the past year.In seventh grade,I was basically going nowhere and was very unhappy.This year I changed things up a bit,and although I have lost acouple of friends,I am overall happier.I believe that if you don’t attempt to change your life,you will be stuck being in an unhappy hole forever.
the proverb that i am picking is “Three may keep a secret, if two of them are dead.
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What this means to me is that in this world you should not trust anyone with anything. Basically no body can be trusted. People have control of their own actions and you can not control if they tell someone or not. It is really easy to say “oh you can trust me i won’t tell anyone.” But when you are in a position to blurt out a secret, you don’t feel that trusted anymore. The way that this pertains to my life is that,i trust alot of people to tell my secret to….but i later realized that i have to reduce the amount of people i trust because i guess that they are not very good secret keepers.
The proverb I chose was the Itilian proverb “After the game, the king and the pawn go into the same box.”
This means to me that everyone is created equally. That eveyone is the same even if they are a diffrent color, culture, or have diffrent religon. For example years ago I would not be able to go to school with some of my freinds because they were diffrent color. While now I can go to school, stores, and be in the same team with everyone no matter what.
“Every sin brings its punishment with it.”
To me, this proverb means that no matter what kind of bad thing you do (big or small) you will either feel that you did wrong or someone else will punish you for it.
Just as anybody, there are times in which you will feel guilty for something you did or didn’t do. Once I had accidentally dropped a portrait in the living room. Luckily my parents weren’t there but then it hit me : what now? The guilt I felt was big. When my parents came home I just had to tell them what I did. Then my parents said that they didn’t mind because I admitted what I had done. Just because they didn’t punish me doesn’t mean that I didn’t keep feeling guilty. Guilt, I guess, was the punishment for almost breaking a portrait.
The toungle is more fear than the sword
This means that what people say can be very hurtful. This relates to me because i can say pretty mean things about others. My toungle is like a razer blade. I can tear someone down in a matter of seconds. Rip down their ego and leave it lying the the dust. I do not come off naturally as a mean person, just if you get me mad. I can easily become one of your best friends just as fast as become your worst nightmare.
Proverb: # Better a lie that soothes than a truth that hurts.
This proverb means sometime its better to lie then to tell the truth
and hurt someone’s feelings. Even know lying is the wrong thing to do
sometimes you can benefit from it. Like on time when my mom asked me
where my brothers money is and I told her he spent it when really he lost
it.
My proverb is:
Beauty without wisdom is like a flower in the mud.
Romanian Proverb ( – )
To me it means that you can be the most beautiful person in the world, but without any personality or knowledge, you won’t get anywhere in life.
I can relate with it because throughout my life I can say I wasn’t the prettiest girl in my class or any of that. I’m not calling myself ugly, but just like every other girl, I have insecurities. Some girls don’t worry about school and their grades, Instead they worry about their outfit for tomorrow and what they are going to be doing next friday.However, In a disccussion with a classmate, he has told me I am funny, whacky and energetic. I am in all advanced classes and I am in Geometry in the eigth grade. So as you can see, though I may not be as pretty as some girls who worry about their apperance , I am going somewhere in life with my smarts and not worrying about materielistic things. And by the way, you can just about get anything with personality not just looks. :]
-crina.
*My Proverb*~The Rotten apple spoils his companion.
This means that a person with a bad attittude will rub off on their friends. So if you know that somebody you hang out with is not a good influence on you…………..try not to associate with them as much.
I chose “There are no foolish questions, only foolish silence.” -chinese proverb
This means that if you don’t understand something ask questions, and don’t pretend that you know it or you’ll just end up looking foolish.
There was this one time when my friend wasn’t paying attention and she didn’t know where the class was in the book and when the teacher called on her to read she just started reading anywhere and the whole class laughed. She should have asked where we were.